I know this is a little premature, but I didn't get out of bed once last night!
Eric and I were near our wits end with this sleep business. On Monday I did the 'pick up put down' method. She seriously screamed for an hour and a half. And I picked her up and put her down 37 times...then I lost count.
Last night we did some research and decided we needed to give her a chance to put herself back down. I said I couldn't let her cry for more than 5 minutes and that was our agreement. Five minutes, then go check it out. As we turned out the lights after reading a bit, she started to stir. She kind of whined for about a minute, maybe two...and then she was lying back down! VICTORY!!! She did this a couple more times throughout the night, two times I think...maybe three. I didn't get a great night of sleep as I was checking the monitor frequently. BUT....I didn't get out of bed. Not once. And definitely not for an hour and a half in the middle of the night!
And...she woke up in a great mood! Just talking away to let us know she was awake! I feel that she was actually rested when she woke up and not feeling already groggy from a night of terrible sleep. And? She was hungry! Sometimes it's a challenge to get her to nurse or eat any breakfast before leaving the house for the day...but not today!
I feel like the three of us have really accomplished something here. I had no idea how hard it would be to teach someone such seemingly basic things...and things that I look forward to several times throughout the day. Sleeping and eating! On the other hand, I feel that I could have helped this situation months ago, as I have been getting up the moment I hear her stir. Does she need to eat? Does she need a diaper change? Does she need to be held? We've done it all...being up every hour, having her get up just once a night, etc. But now? Now we know she can go through the night without eating, she can put herself back to bed...and we can all get a little more sleep and be a little more rested!
Thank you, sweet baby girl!!! I feel like a brand new person today!!
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